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The Remains of the Day

The Remains of the Day

Book · Literary & classic fiction · 46 mentions · 6 subreddits · discussed in r/books, r/booksuggestions, r/suggestmeabook, r/Fantasy

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Pros

  • * Remains of the Day - England
  • I viewed it as hopeful, though perhaps that has to do with where I am in life and how I connected to it, perhaps I needed to feel it was hopeful.
  • Have you tried Remains of the Day? That's my favourite Ishiguro
  • For me, the bitterness and regrets (and lack of regrets) and pride in himself and his profession all unfold beautifully to the end. It was solidly comforting, but if you weren’t feeling it then it didn’t hit the mark for you and that’s o...
  • I found it dreadfully slow and just wanted him to get ON with it which of course ended up being so important to the book itself, and I'm so glad I continued despite being ready to DNF it. Easily one of my favourite books of all time

Cons

  • Remains of the Day,
  • The Remains of the Day by Kazuo Ishiguro. Male protagonist, a butler reflecting on what his life amounted to.
  • Stevens from The Remains of the Day, but more as a cautionary tale. In some ways I relate to him, which is part of why the book shook me up so badly, because I don’t want to end up looking back at my life and realizing that I wasted.

Sentiment

38 positive (83%) · 6 mixed (13%) · 2 negative (4%)

Trust + time weighted score: +80% · raw score 78%

What redditors said (10 of 46)

* Remains of the Day - England
positive · u/C****r · r/MovieSuggestions · comment · Nov 12, 2025 · open on Reddit ↗ · attribution unverified
I viewed it as hopeful, though perhaps that has to do with where I am in life and how I connected to it, perhaps I needed to feel it was hopeful.
positive · u/R****k · r/books · comment · Jan 17, 2025 · open on Reddit ↗
Have you tried Remains of the Day? That's my favourite Ishiguro
positive · u/N****9 · r/books · comment · Jul 19, 2025 · open on Reddit ↗
For me, the bitterness and regrets (and lack of regrets) and pride in himself and his profession all unfold beautifully to the end. It was solidly comforting, but if you weren’t feeling it then it didn’t hit the mark for you and that’s okay. :)
positive · u/R****y · r/books · comment · Jul 2, 2025 · open on Reddit ↗
Remains of the Day,
mixed · u/b****e · r/suggestmeabook · comment · Jan 8, 2025 · open on Reddit ↗
I found it dreadfully slow and just wanted him to get ON with it which of course ended up being so important to the book itself, and I'm so glad I continued despite being ready to DNF it. Easily one of my favourite books of all time
positive · u/z****o · r/books · Dec 30, 2025 · open on Reddit ↗
Remains of the day is a fav of mine.
positive · u/K****r · r/books · comment · Dec 26, 2025 · open on Reddit ↗
I remember one character asks something like "Stevens why you are crying?". It kind of surprised me because his narration never mentioned he was crying just his thoughts. It hit me that he was suppressing his emotions in the narration as well.
positive · u/c****6 · r/books · comment · Dec 25, 2025 · open on Reddit ↗
Totally agree with Remains of the Day - that quiet devastation hits so much harder when you have to piece together Stevens' whole tragic situation yourself
positive · u/D****4 · r/books · comment · Dec 25, 2025 · open on Reddit ↗
For me, The Remains of the Day is the clearest example. The main character speaks carefully and avoids emotion, and the book never stops to explain what he is really feeling. His regret, loneliness, and missed chances show up through small moments and polite conversations.
positive · u/g****2 · r/books · Dec 25, 2025 · open on Reddit ↗

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